Let’s face it, changing diapers is no one’s favorite task. But when it comes to taking care of our little ones, it’s just something we have to do. However, this mom has a unique perspective on how to approach diaper changes – by getting consent from your baby!

Changing diapers is a common part of parenting. It may not be glamorous, but it’s a necessary part of caring for a baby. And just like with any aspect of raising children, there are differing opinions on the best way to go about it. From diaper choices to changing frequency, everyone seems to have their own approach.

According to the American Pregnancy Association, changing a diaper every two or three hours is a reasonable schedule. However, not everyone follows this guideline. One mother, Lottie Daley, has sparked a discussion by advocating for getting consent from a child before changing their diaper.

Now, you might be wondering how on earth a baby can give consent. Well, it’s not about asking a “yes or no” question to a baby who can’t understand or respond. It’s about creating a culture of consent and bodily autonomy from a young age. By making an effort to ask, even if the baby doesn’t understand, it sets a precedent for the child to expect to be asked and to ask before touching someone.

But it doesn’t stop at diaper changes. Lottie believes in extending this practice to bath time, cleaning or wiping, and even tickling. She still asks her five and seven-year-old daughters for permission before helping them clean themselves. This approach teaches children to set boundaries for themselves and respect the boundaries of others.

Lottie is not alone in her beliefs. Comedian Russell Brand, a friend of Lottie, shares a similar perspective. He suggests that we shouldn’t do anything to a child without their consent that we wouldn’t do to an adult. Tickling, for example, is often done without thinking, but it can be uncomfortable or even violate someone’s bodily autonomy. By considering how we would treat adults, we can extend that same courtesy to our children.

Of course, Lottie’s ideas have faced some criticism. Some argue that her approach may hinder proper hygiene and pose health risks. Others feel that eliminating things like tickling takes away from the special moments of parenting. It’s a topic that sparks debate and invites different perspectives.

So, what are your thoughts? Do you think getting consent from a baby is beneficial or does it go too far? We’d love to hear your opinions on our Facebook page!