It has been 20 years since Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise divorced, but the fascination over their former relationship still remains. In a recent interview with Harper’s Bazaar, the 54-year-old actress reflected on her 11-year marriage to Cruise, offering some insights into their union and its aftermath.
Nicole and Tom tied the knot in 1990 and adopted two children together, Isabella and Connor. Their separation in 2001 came as a shock to fans, with the official statement citing the difficulties of maintaining a relationship while having divergent careers. Since then, speculation and curiosity have surrounded the reasons behind their split.
Although Nicole has been relatively tight-lipped about their marriage, she admitted to being more cautious about sharing personal details now. However, she still believes in being open and prefers a warm approach rather than shutting people out.
Nicole’s current husband, Keith Urban, once asked her, “How’s your heart?” to which she replied, “Open.” This exemplifies her desire to embrace love and maintain a positive outlook on relationships.
The actress has offered glimpses into her marriage with Cruise over the years. She fell deeply in love with him during the filming of “Days of Thunder” in 1990 and was ready to start a family with him. However, they faced fertility struggles, including a miscarriage and an ectopic pregnancy early in their marriage.
Looking back, Nicole acknowledges marrying at a young age and rushing into things. However, she credits Tom for working hard to keep their love alive, being creative and romantic in their relationship.
Despite the positive aspects of their marriage, Nicole admits there were downsides. She often felt like she was known only for being Tom Cruise’s wife, rather than for her own accomplishments. However, she also acknowledges the protection his fame provided her during the early years of her career in Hollywood.
Addressing the rumors surrounding their marriage during the filming of “Eyes Wide Shut,” Nicole insists they were happily married at the time. She cherishes the memories of bonding even after emotionally intense scenes, such as go-kart racing late at night.
When they announced their divorce in 2001, it came as a shock to Nicole. She believed their life together was perfect, and the split took a long time for her to heal. Tom refused counseling and reconciliation, leaving her devastated. Court filings also revealed that she was pregnant at the time but suffered a miscarriage.
Ultimately, Tom was granted full custody of their children, raising questions about their relationship with Nicole. In a candid interview, she expressed her love for her children and their choices, even if they have chosen to be Scientologists. She believes in offering unconditional love and being an example of tolerance for them.
Nicole’s journey through love and loss exemplifies the challenges of marriage and divorce. Despite the difficulties and heartbreak, she remains resilient and focused on providing love and support to her children.
